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Monday Rec: 5 Ways to Engage Your Child this Summer

Sunday, July 4th, 2010

Last Friday, I was on View From the Bay talking about 5 tips to engage your child this summer (watch the TV clip here). I am a big believer that wonderful learning can happen outside the classroom, and each of these five ways is a fun way to promote learning – and often encourages family communication and interaction in a fun way. Watch the TV clip or read the five tips below:

  1. Create a comic strip: To improve handwriting and penmanship, young students need to work on their fine motor skills. Creating comic strip works on humor, creativity, and also encourages use of those fine motor skills so important for handwriting – something that is being lost as many young students are spending more and more time on a computer. Fine motor skills are still crucially important, as is penmanship, and this is a fun way to encourage kids to develop those skills.
  2. Get into the kitchen: At the beginning of the summer, have your kids figure out their favorite breakfast, lunch and dinner meals – and then, over the course of the summer, have them master creating each meal from scratch. So, if their favorite dinner is spaghetti, perhaps having them learn how to make the sauce from scratch. Then, get them each a receipe box and index cards so they can write down (again, practicing handwriting) their own notes and adaptations of the recipes they followed – this helps kids with their math, science, critical thinking and writing skills.
  3. Plan a weekly local excursion: Give each child a budget to plan an itinerary for a weekly day trip. If you live near a city, perhaps have them figure out all the public transportation options if the trip involves a museum or something similar. The trip could also involve the outdoors – you as a family can come up with a theme, or rotate (city museum one week, country hiking the next) each week. The key is that the child use their research skills to budget and plan the itinerary – which works on developing math, critical thinking and problem solving skills.
  4. Bring back the Traditional Family Board Game Night: Traditional Family Board Games like Yahtzee, Monopoly and Scrabble can be fun ways of encouraging learning – scrabble can work with vocabulary, and Yahtzee and Monopoly are all about strategy and critical thinking as well as basic math skills. Make it fun with popcorn and snacks and sitting around a circular table even for an hour can encourage conversation and communication as well as skill building.
  5. Create-A-Story Contest: Similar to an old camp game where kids went around and each wrote a sentence of a story and went around in a circle and had the next kid write the next sentence, and so on and so forth, until a creatively hilarious story was developed, work on a short story as a family this summer. As a family, pick a genre (sci-fi, sports, etc), and then have each person write a few paragraphs on the computer and then pass it on to the next person in the family. Kids can get really excited about this activity, and the whole family can get involved to see what happens next to the characters that they are collectively creating. This works on creative writing, critical thinking development.

Local Event: Cooks for A Cause, Benefiting the Sunbeam Foundation

Monday, May 3rd, 2010

When I was in high school, I volunteered at the Ronald McDonald House at Stanford on Sunday nights. It was there where I met my friend Jen, who introduced me to her high school classmate and good friend Sara LaBoskey. Sara grew up in Los Altos and ended up being a year behind me at Duke, and found out in her junior year that she had Ewing’s sarcoma, a rare form of junior year. She passed away in the summer of 2002, and the Sunbeam Foundation was founded in her honor.

On Sunday, May 23, 2010, from 4:30 – 9 pm, downtown Los Altos will host the Cooks for A Cure Progressive Dinner, where diners can stroll to downtown Los Altos for dinner hosted and donated by Akane, Aldo Los Altos, Beausejour, Maltby’s, Peony, Pompeii, and Zitune.  There will also be dessert and demonstration by renowned Chef Charlie Ayers.

It’s a fun event for an amazing cause, and I hope you can join! For more information and to buy tickets, click here.

Monday Rec – Summer Fun!

Monday, March 15th, 2010

The last few days have turned L-O-V-E-L-Y in sunny California, and the respite from the rain makes me incredibly grateful. I am excited to announce our Summer Workshops for 2010, as well as our Back-to-School Organizational Workshop schedule. Take a look at our varied offerings, including our Middle School Debate Workshop and our Amazing Writing Workshops for both High School and Middle School Students!

Even though we are in the middle of March (with Spring just around the corner) now is the perfect time to start thinking about summer plans. This past week, I had two conversations with students and parents who were planning on going to academic summer camps because they thought it “would help their chances in college admissions.”

Spending $6,000+ to go to a summer camp just because you think it is going to improve your child’s college admissions odds is ridiculous. Over the years, I have worked with hundreds of kids who have been successful at gaining admission to the schools of their choice, and who spent their summers doing the most varied and wonderful things: Working as a grocery store bag boy. Starting a landscaping business with their friend. Taking art classes. Running a summer art workshop for elementary students. Volunteering with inner-city youth at a summer camp. Teaching dance. Life-guarding. Doing a wilderness expedition.

Start having the conversation with your children about what interests they would like to pursue this summer – preferably outside the classroom, and potentially something they have not been able to explore during the school year.

Remember: there are many ways to plan a meaningful summer, just keep in mind that summer should also be a time o get a chance to relax!! There is *no need* to spend thousands of dollars on a specific academic program or adventure – it will not set your child apart in the college admissions process. A program like that can be a wonderful way to spend a summer, but so can volunteering locally in a neighborhood garden or working in a coffee shop.

Monday Rec – Bill Mayher’s The College Admissions Mystique

Monday, January 18th, 2010

Parents often ask me what books I recommend to help them get to know more about the College Admissions Process. Today’s Monday Rec is a great read, and is a wonderful early entry point into the college admissions process. Bill Mayher’s The College Admissions Mystique has over 27 years of experience as a college counselor. He weaves his stories in an enjoyable manner, and offers parents practical advice and an approach in a manner that is calming, amusing and informative all at once.

In my work as a college counselor, I work with each student individually to create a list of schools that is appropriate for them given their strengths, interests, and abilities. My philosophy is to have students apply to schools that they would actually go to – rather than simply create a list full of schools that they would definitely get into but might not be all that interested in, or may not be a good fit for them given their individual traits and interests. Bill Mayher is a counselor who subscribes to a similar philosophy, and he really cares to learn about the whole student – not just the grades and numbers – to help students on their journey through college and their next steps in life.

Monday Rec – Know any Liberal Arts Majors?

Tuesday, January 12th, 2010

Parents often come to me worries about what their liberal arts major is going “to do with their life.” Why couldn’t they be an engineer? Engineers have purpose! Both my parents are engineers, so imagine their initial chagrin when they found out that I was not only majoring in Liberal Arts, but I had designed my own major at Duke to boot! My dad just said. “Just get a job when you graduate, please.”

And get a job I did – at a major investment bank (which I was not fully suited for because I love people more than Powerpoint) – a job that many economics and finance jobs would have loved to have landed. But then I missed working with kids, so I started Green Ivy, and here we are.

The Monday Rec is Smart Moves for Liberal Arts Grads, and is written by Sheila Curran and Suzanne Greenwald. Sheila used to be the Director of Career Services at Duke, and the book is Awesome! It really helps give students and parents a flavor for all the opportunities out there…its uplifting, motivating, and more than one engineering parent has thanked me for loaning out my copy!!

Monday Rec – Jeanmarie Cahill’s Talk

Monday, January 4th, 2010

So, I decided that Monday is the day that I recommend things – books, talks, movies, whatever applicable in my work with students…and this Monday I recommend Jeanmarie Cahill’s talk for parents this Tuesday night. Jeanmarie is a MFT who works with adolescents in the Bay Area and was one of my favorite professors when I was getting my Masters in Counseling at USF. All of the information is below, but please note that space is limited, so RSVP to education@doctorcarlton.com.

Teens in Trouble: How to Know When Your Teen Needs Help

Please join Dr. Pamela Carlton for an ongoing Free Education Program For Parents of Teens and Young Adults.

Teens today are burdened by more stress than teens of years past. Teenagers are forced to confront increases in stress on several fronts: school, athletics, extracurricular activities, relationships, technology and employment, while simultaneously responding physically, mentally and emotionally to the challenges that accompany normal adolescent development.  The parents of a teenager and those who work with teenagers, on a regular basis, must remain on the alert for signals that a teenager is in trouble and needs support through this critical period of their life and specifically in dealing with their stress.

This presentation will focus on helping parents, and those who work with teenagers, determine when a teenager
needs help, how to provide that help and how to go about getting outside help.

Jeanmarie Cahill, MFT
A New York City native, Jeanmarie Cahill, MFT has lived in the San Francisco Bay Area for 22 years.  She holds both a BA and MA in Psychology and is a licensed Marriage Family Therapist, MFT. Currently Jeanmarie is in private practice in Los Gatos and is an adjunct professor at the University of San Francisco.   Jeanmarie’s specialty is working with adolescents and their families.

Date: Tuesday January 5, 2010 at 7:00pm-8:30pm

Place: 2490 Hospital Drive, Suite 205, Mountain View, CA 94040
(pass they YMCA and as the road turns to the left, the office is located on the right, across from the Women’s Hospital.